Quotes about White Identity
Posted: June 1996
he following quotes come from various sources, mostly contemporary, on whiteness and white identity. Most reflect the serious work of professionals engaged in understanding how and why white Americans act as they do. Many of the quotes are from people who do not explicitly identify as white, and probably would not be identified as such by others. Taken together, the quotes represent both insider and outsider views on the topic.
Lack of understanding of self owing to a poor sense of identity
causes Whites to develop a negative attitude toward minorities on both a
conscious and a subconscious level.
Judith H. Katz, White Awareness: Handbook for AntiRacism Training
(Norman, OK: Univ. of Oklahoma Press, 1978).
There is a dearth of studies on Whites in the area of social identity
development in general and racial identity development in particular.
"White Racial Identity Development in the United States" by Rita Hardiman in
Race, Ethnicity and Self: Identity in Multicultural Perspective, edited by
Elizabeth Pathy Salett and Diane R. Koslow (Washington, DC: NMCI Publications, 1994).
Many Whites in the United States have a strong sense of ethnic
identity that is tied to their immigrant ancestors country of origin (Italian
Americans, Irish Americans, Swedish Americans) or to their experience in
this country (New England Yankees, Midwestern Hoosiers, Appalachians,
and so on). There are many subgroups within the White experience, but
...[m]any United States Whites with a strong sense of ethnic identity do not
have a strong sense of racial identity. Indeed, ...many Whites take their
Whiteness for granted to the extent that they do not consciously think about
it. Nevertheless, their identity as members of the White group in the United
States has a profound impact on their lives.
"White Racial Identity Development in the United States" by Rita Hardiman in
Race, Ethnicity and Self: Identity in Multicultural Perspective, edited by
Elizabeth Pathy Salett and Diane R. Koslow (Washington, DC: NMCI Publications, 1994).
...it has frequently been the case that White students enrolled in my
class on racial and cultural issues in counseling expect to be taught all about
the cultures of people of color, and they are almost always surprised to hear
that we will be discussing the White groups experience. Some students
remark that they are not White; they are female, or working-class, or
Catholic or Jewish, but not White. When challenged, they reluctantly admit
that they are White but report that this is the first time they have had to
think about what it means for them.
"White Racial Identity Development in the United States" by Rita Hardiman in
Race, Ethnicity and Self: Identity in Multicultural Perspective, edited by
Elizabeth Pathy Salett and Diane R. Koslow (Washington, DC: NMCI Publications, 1994).
[T]he majority of the dedicated white activists [in Civil Rights] of
the period 1961-1963 were radicals and beatnik types. Both were alienated
from American middle-class values, and in their rejection of these values
turned either to the Marxist critique of capitalist society or, perhaps more
often, took on something of the hipster personality. Many of the latter type
fitted quite neatly into Norman Mailers concept of the "white Negro."
Alienated from the middle-class conventions of their parents, they glorified
the most alienated and outcast group in American society, lower-class
Negros &emdash; the stereotypes of personal sloppiness and uninhibited sexuality.
Only, instead of considering these qualities bad, they regarded them as the
wrap and woof of a superior way of life. As one bearded Johns Hopkins
graduate student gravely informed me: "Of course Negros are more
promiscuous and uninhibited sexually than whites. I envy them and wish I
could be like them." Similarly, the radicals tended to romanticize lower-class Negros as part of their romanticization of the oppressed and poor of
all societies.
August Meier, "Who Are the True Believers? &emdash; A Tentative
Typology of the Motivations of Civil Rights Activists" in A White Scholar
and the Black Community 1945-1965: Essays and Reflections (Amherst, MA: The Univ. of Massachusetts Press, 1992).
To some, the hipster sorts [of whites involved in Civil Rights prior
to 1963] are "kooks." Many of them so reject their identity as members of
conventional American white middle-class society that, far from objecting to
the "race-baiting" of some of the Negro militants, they either revel in it
masochistically or join in similar criticism themselves. A few even fancy
themselves "black nationalists." At COREs 1963 convention one such
activist unsuccessfully urged a Negro to run against a white candidate for
the organizations National Action council. His reason, succinctly stated,
was simple: "We dont want any more of those God-damned white people
on the council."
August Meier, "Who Are the True Believers? &emdash; A Tentative
Typology of the Motivations of Civil Rights Activists" in A White Scholar
and the Black Community 1945-1965: Essays and Reflections (Amherst, MA: The Univ. of Massachusetts Press, 1992).
The examples of the status figures in their churches and the civil
rights crisis of 1963 combined to make it suddenly evident to these young
[white] men and women [from stable family backgrounds] that race
discrimination was a burning issue. And it was a burning issue to them
precisely because it violated the democratic and Christian values which they
had been trained to treasure.... The point I am making is that in contrast to
the beatniks, the radicals, the pacifists, and even the liberals, the
commitment of these youths arose not out of any alienation from American
society, but out of a profound sense of attachment to it.
August Meier, "Who Are the True Believers? A Tentative
Typology of the Motivations of Civil Rights Activists" in A White Scholar
and the Black Community 1945-1965: Essays and Reflections (Amherst, MA: The Univ. of Massachusetts Press, 1992).
[Blacks are mired] in a very natural process of inversion in
which we invert from negative to positive the very point of difference our
blackness that the enemy used to justify our oppression.
...One of the many advantages whites enjoy in America is a relative
freedom from the draining obligation of racial inversion. Whites do not
have to spend precious time fashioning an identity out of simply being white.
They do not have to self-consciously imbue whiteness with an ideology,
look to whiteness for some special essence, or divide up into factions and
wrestle over what it means to be white. Their racial collectivism, to the
extent that they feel it, creates no imbalance between the collective and the
individual. This, of course, is yet another blessing of history and of power,
of never having lived in the midst of an overwhelming enemy race.
Shelby Steele, The Content of Our Character (New York: Harper Perennial, 1990).
[An all-white group] is essential to creating the atmosphere of
security, safety and trust needed for participants to feel able to express,
recognize and change racist attitudes and behaviors. In addition to fostering
trust, the all-white group encourages the white students racial
identification. One of the important steps that whites must go through in
learning about racism and their role in combatting it is to recognize
themselves as white. While...ethnic minorities are forced by their racial
oppression to be aware of themselves as members of racial groups, whites
generally have the luxury to feel "normal," not aware of their whiteness.
Echols, I., Gabel, C., Landerman, D., & Reyes, M., (1988).
"An Approach for Addressing Racism, Ethnocentrism, and Sexism in the
Curriculum," in C. Jacobs & D. Bowles (Eds.), Ethnicity and Race. Silver
Spring, MD: National Association of Social Workers.
Few whites are able to say honestly that being White is an identity
that brings them a sense of pride. Although some may feel that being White
means being powerful, lucky, comfortable, and secure, it also can mean
confusion, entrapment, and threatened self-esteem, hardly attributes that
would promote helpfulness to people-of-color, who may be dealing with
such consequences themselves. A [counseling] practitioner whose sense of
self is distorted and who needs another to project on cannot help that other
to feel good about himself, to develop sound judgement, strong reality
testing, goal-oriented behavior, the will to struggle against racism, and the
skill to work toward change in his oppressed condition. Changing the
meaning of White to a more positive one thus becomes an important step in
preparation for [counseling] effectiveness.
Elaine Pinderhughes, Understanding Race, Ethnicity, and
Power: The Key to Efficacy in Clinical Practice (New York: The Free Press, 1989).
The anxiety that exists for Whites concerning the subject of race
should not be underestimated. It is high even for those who believe they
have mastered their biases and especially for those who have made the
commitment to self-confrontation. For although many would like to believe
they are free of racial prejudice and want to view it as operative only in
instances of blatant bigotry, there is tension about checking this out. This
anxiety has been expressed in terms of fear of discovering bad things about
oneself, uneasiness about unexamined values, awareness of the
pervasiveness of racism, of ones helplessness to cope, and of a sense of a
sense of entrapment... Management of this anxiety in the interest of
confronting bias and achieving greater comfort and confidence in cross-racial interactions should be seen as an act of courage.
But usually Whites do not feel courageous. They tend instead to
plead ignorance and to protest that they have never had to think about the
meaning of being White.
Elaine Pinderhughes, Understanding Race, Ethnicity, and
Power: The Key to Efficacy in Clinical Practice (New York: The Free Press, 1989).
The most destructive consequence of guilt and one that is
most likely to cause [counseling] practitioners and teachers to behave
inappropriately and defensively is the threat it poses to self-esteem and to
everyones need to feel positive about his identity. White people have as
great a need to feel that their racial identity is positive as do people-of-color.
The task for them is to find out what they need to do to achieve this.
Elaine Pinderhughes, Understanding Race, Ethnicity, and
Power: The Key to Efficacy in Clinical Practice (New York: The Free Press, 1989).
"My pre-college friends thought I was having an identity
crisis," says the Mississippi native of their response to her decision to join
Robert Clarks campaign to become the first Black congressman from
Mississippi since Reconstruction. "They couldnt understand why I would
want to take that job when I could do something else."
Some of her family members were more blunt. "They wanted to
know why I was wasting my talents there when I could be making more
money in another surrounding [Translation: White] that was more like I was
brought up in." says Hinton.
She also had to face their real, if difficult to voice, fear. "For one
family member," she confides, "the real concern was that I would meet, fall
in love and marry a Black person."
Karen Hinton, former press secretary for Mississippi State
Rep. Robert Clark quoted in "Reverse Integration," by Laura B.
Randolph, Ebony, January 1994, pp. 68-70,72. [Brackets original.]
There are few resources that focus on the need for white men
to learn about their own identity. History books do not tell about the effects
of slavery on the slave owners. They do not suggest that white peoples
fears when they see two or more black men walk or drive through white
neighborhoods may be the same fears that haunted white Southerners after
slave-uprisings such as Denmark Veseys plot in 1822 and Nat Turners
rebellion in 1831. Nor do they describe how being part of the race that has
dominated and oppressed Mexicans, Chinese, Japanese, Native Americans,
and other people of color on this continent affects individual members of
that race.
Oron South, "The Learning Problem," in The Diversity Factor, Vol. 1 No. 3,
1993, pp. 32-33.
Now you may be all right; there are a few white men who
are, but the pressure is such from your white friends that you will be
compelled to talk against us and give us the cold shoulder when you are
around them, even if your heart is right toward us.
Thomas Hall, ex-slave, when interviewed in 1937 at age 81 as part of the
Federal Writers Project during the Great Depression. Reported in My
Folks Dont Want Me To Talk About Slavery, edited by Belinda Hurmence (Winston-Salem, North Carolina: John F. Blair, Publisher, 1993) p. 53.
If we follow through on the self-reflexive nature of these
encounters with Africanism, it falls clear: images of blackness can be evil
and protective, rebellious and forgiving, fearful and
desirable all of the self-contradictory features of the self. Whiteness,
alone, is mute, meaningless, unfathomable, pointless, frozen, veiled,
curtained, dreaded, senseless, implacable. Or so our writers seem to say.
Toni Morrison, from Playing in the Dark: Whiteness and the Literary
Imagination (New York:Vintage Books, 1993) p. 59. [Original emphasis]
Another reason for this quite ornamental vacuum in literary
discourse on the presence and influence of Africanist peoples in American
criticism is the pattern of thinking about racialism in terms of its
consequences on the victim--of always defining it assymetrically from the
perspective of its impact on the object of racist policy and attitudes. A good
deal of time and intelligence has been invested in the exposure of racism and
the horrific results on its objects. There are constant, if erratic, liberalizing
efforts to legislate these matters. There are also powerful and persuasive
attempts to analyze the orign and fabrication of racism itself, contesting the
assumption that it is an inevitable, permanent, and eternal part of all social
landscapes. I do not wish to disparage these inquiries. It is precisely
because of them that any progress at all has been accomplished in matters of
racial discourse. But that well-established study should be joined with
another, equally important one: the impact of racism on those who
perpetuate it... The scholarship that looks into the mind, imagination, and
behavior of slaves is valuable. But equally valuable is a serious intellectual
effort to see what racial ideology does to the mind, imagination, and
behavior of masters.
Toni Morrison, from Playing in the Dark: Whiteness and the Literary
Imagination (New York:Vintage Books, 1993) p. 59. [Original emphasis]
There are two other students in my class who have one black
parent and one white parent, and they were very black-identified, but they
also got recruited very heavily by these same two [black] guys who were
like, "You belong with us. Why dont you come with us?" And I didnt
want to be recruited. Again, I wasnt willing to make this decision that these
were the only people I was going to talk to for three years, which is really
what they wanted you to decide. It was okay to talk to the Latino students,
you know, and the Native American students; if you had to you could
talk to the Asian students, but you should avoid white students unless they
prove themselves... I know so many white students who feel completely
alienated; they didnt come to Berkeley expecting to have to jump through
hoops to be allowed to talk to someone who was black.
Lisa Feldstein, age 28, biracial child of a black mother and white father,
quoted by Lise Funderburg in Black, White, Other: Biracial Americans Talk
About Race and Identity (New York: William Morrow and Company, Inc.,
1994) pp. 130-131.
You start talking about racial issues, especially with upper-class white folk, immediately they go into the denial stage of "Prove to me
why this is true." Well, how many volumes am I going to sit here and beat
my head against the wall to prove to you that our life experience may be just
a little bit different from yours?
Brad Simpson, age 31, biracial child of a white mother and black father,
quoted by Lise Funderburg in Black, White, Other: Biracial Americans Talk
About Race and Identity (New York: William Morrow and Company, Inc.,
1994) p. 171.
When I feel more white, thats about something physical,
about how other people react to me in terms of oppression or
discrimination. Its also culture and class: middle-class, predominantly
white neighborhoods, predominantly white schools. I dont see white
people as different from me, and I think thats very different from most
black people, maybe even very different from biracial people. I pass very
easily as white, and so I have a sense that I do know what its like to be fully
part of white culture: being around Whites, being assumed to be white,
being amongst white people for long periods of time. Also, the white
culture is just more available for everyone on TV, in the media.
Paul Whitaker, age 32, biracial child of a white mother and black father,
quoted by Lise Funderburg in Black, White, Other: Biracial Americans Talk
About Race and Identity (New York: William Morrow and Company, Inc.,
1994) p. 219.
People, of course, are so ignorant, and her hair is very
straight and fine, although its wavy, and so people would ask me stupid
things when she was a baby, like, "What is she?" or "Wheres her dad?" or
"Whose baby is that?" Then when she was getting bigger they would pet
her hair and ask her what she was mixed with. She would say, "Why, Im
black." And she would say that first, because I always stressed that first,
right? And told her how wonderful that was and what that meant and we
studied African history and black history and all that stuff, and she would
say because she knows and loves her grandmother, and Im sure she
thinks of her aunt and uncle this way because theyre such universal human
beings so shed say, "Im black and Im Cherokee and Im white!" And I
just freaked out. Because, although Im sure its very obvious to most
people, youll probably never hear me saying, "Im black and Im Cherokee
and Im white." I just dont add the last part. I never do.
Zenobia Kujichagulia, age 43, multiracial child of a white mother and
racially mixed father, discussing her own daughters experience, quoted by
Lise Funderburg in Black, White, Other: Biracial Americans Talk About
Race and Identity (New York: William Morrow and Company, Inc., 1994)
pp. 292-293. [Original emphasis]
All I know is that by the next century, this country is not
going to be Leave It to Beaver. I saw the future in LA. I saw Asians, I
saw Hispanic, I saw all different types of people. The white people were the
minority. W.E.B. DuBois talks about how, being black, you learn how to
live in two worlds, you learn how to be around people differently, you learn
how to adjust. If youre white, you never really had to do that before. In a
sense I feel sympathy for them because theyre going to have to learn how
to do that pretty soon, and Im already doing it.
John Blake, age 27, biracial child of a white mother and black father, quoted
by Lise Funderburg in Black, White, Other: Biracial Americans Talk About
Race and Identity (New York: William Morrow and Company, Inc., 1994)
pp. 300-301.
One time I had on some shirt that had various statements on
it about being black; "Im black and Im proud. Its a black thing, you
wouldnt understand..." And they were all positive comments. I guess "you
wouldnt understand" wouldnt necessarily be positive, but it was on there,
nevertheless. I think my hair covered that one. But this guy started yelling
something like, "Im white and Im proud of it," and he said, "And Im so
white and Im so proud that I could kick your da-da-da," some abusive
statement about how he could prove something to me with violence which
he couldnt have anyway. But some white power thing. I guess he finally
calmed down and had gotten all that out and was feeling better, and he said,
"You know, if I wore a white power T-shirt in this school, theyd probably
make me take it off." And I said, "Youre probably right. And thats not
fair. So you can wear one and you could dispute it if you like, but I dont
care. I could care less." And I left. I wasnt impressed so I just left. But I
remember thinking, if you had seen the look in his eyes when he first started,
I was like, "Im glad Im not around you alone." After that point, if he was
in the hall and the hall was empty, I would turn the other way.
Simone Brooks, 17, biracial child of a white mother and black father,
quoted by Lise Funderburg in Black, White, Other: Biracial Americans Talk
About Race and Identity (New York: William Morrow and Company, Inc.,
1994) p. 317.
...the Number of purely white People in the World is proportionably
very small. All Africa is black or tawny. Asia chiefly tawny. America
(exclusive of the new Comers) wholly so. And in Europe, the Spaniards,
Italians, French, Russians and Swedes, are generally of what we call a
swarthy Complexion; as are the Germans also, the Saxons only excepted,
who with the English, make the principal Body of White People on the Face
of the Earth. I could wish their Numbers were increased.
Benjamin Franklin, "Observations Concerning the Increase in
Mankind," (1751), Papers of Benjamin Franklin, ed. Leonard W. Labaree
(New Haven, 1959). Cited in article by Straughton Lynd, "Slavery and the
Founding Fathers," in Black History: A Reappraisal, ed. Melvin Drimmer
(Garden City, New York: Anchor Books, Doubleday & Company, Inc.,
1969).